Hello! We would like to tell you our daughter's story she has gone through thus far. Her name is Amisha and she was born with a rare birth defect called Microtia. In appearance, Microtia just looks like the person is missing one or both ears. What they do not see is the potential damage to the kidneys and heart that can come from this defect. During fetal development the ears and kidneys develop at the same time. The heart has already started developing before this but can still be affected by Microtia. One out of every 10,000 children are born with Microtia but one out of every 8000 develop the more serious complications that can come with the condition, which our Amisha was one of them.
Living in a smaller town, we knew little of her condition other than the physical aspect. She was missing her right ear and her head was deformed because of that. She is deaf on the right side where ear is missing and has no hearing at all from that side as it is closed with no canal. At 6 months old she was diagnosed with Torticollis because of the Microtia. Torticollis is the condition when the patient tilts his or her head to one side. Her physical therapist said it was because one neck muscle was shorter than the other and exercise would help. We were happy with that and went on doing her exercises at home for a couple years.
During the six months after starting the treatment we started to see specialists about 5 hours away that knew more about her condition. They were knowledgeable and we were told a lot of information about Microtia. We also were told that she needed a special piece of equipment called a Doc Band immediately. That is a device that dramatically reshapes the skull. It gets fitted at the Children's Hospital for her. After the initial molding, we had to travel back again once a week for 6 weeks to get her fittings adjusted. After the 6 weeks, it was once every 2 weeks for 8 weeks. That's 11 trips at 10 hours a trip within 4 months, during the winter. This device was not covered under our health care and the cost was $3000, plus the trips, hotels and missed wages from work as all of our holiday days were used up with specialist appointments.
Amisha also has had other issues pop up. At the age of 6 months she had a seizure and spent 2 weeks in the hospital until she was diagnosed with kidney infection and she was put on antibiotics because of it. That day changed our whole life. Amisha was put on antibiotics as a prophylactic as she was getting the infections on a regular basis. There is a chance that antibiotics can damage hearing. That is why we started getting her hearing checked every month. Once Amisha reached an age where she could tell us if something felt wrong we immediately decided to take her off the antibiotic. Her infections continued but we did not want to impair the only hearing that she has. When Amisha was 2 we went to see a geneticist to see why Amisha had all these health problems when our son, Krishin who is 2 years older, was fine. He recommended we get a x-ray of her spine as it should have been done when she was born. We came home and Veena did some research and since Amisha had to be sedated anyways as she was so young, she asked if they could do a MRI, which would show tissues and nerves as well as bones. Two days after Easter in 2007, we got the call that Amisha needed to see the neurosurgeon immediately and book surgery. Her spinal cord was tethered, and was attached to a mass at the end of her spine. If Veena had not done the research, Amisha would have potentially lost the use of her legs as it is a form of spina bifida. The spinal cord is supposed to move freely within the spinal column. If there is any reason that the cord cannot move freely, it is tethered. Following surgery Amisha was to lay on her back for 48hrs but even on all the morphine she was on, she still wanted to be held by Mommy.
She had the operation to remove tissue around the spinal cord the morning of July 31, 2007. She was in the hospital for a week and was still not comfortable with the pain, even though she was on morphine along with other medications. Shortly after we got home, there was some swelling around the cut. They suspect that it was some leakage of spinal fluid. Everything healed fine, and we now see the neurosurgeon once a year to ensure the cord does not retether as it can happen very quickly.
We still see several specialists regularly in Alberta during the year. Those include urologist, pediatrician, optical, neurosurgeon, dental and the cleft pallet clinic due to her Microtia. In September of 2009 Amisha had her tonsils taken out and ended up with pneumonia. We keep copies of all Amisha's tests and received a copy from her follow up chest x-ray to ensure the pneumonia cleared up and found out something was found on her heart. With the good help of our geneticist we got into cardiology immediately and they sedated Amisha for a MRI to ensure there was nothing wrong with her heart due to her upcoming surgeries in the USA. She had an EKG and MRI done and more tests and we are thankful that as of right now everything checked out okay with her heart. We will have to have regular tests done to ensure nothing develops as she grows.
There are many well qualified doctors that we have heard about in North America that can perform the physical reconstruction of the ear but only a few stood out. We wanted to find the best for our Amisha, as any parent would. Once an ear is attempted to be made, it cannot be redone or moved due to scar tissue. We also wanted someone who had done numerous ears and could show us results. In November 2005, we had an opportunity to fly to New York and attend a conference with arguably the best USA plastic surgeon for ear reconstruction, as well as another brilliant surgeon that performs a different surgery for Microtia patients. The first surgeon we were impressed with basically pioneered the way rib graft is done today. He is also an accomplished sculptor. Another surgeon we talked with actually aligns the inner bones, creates an ear drum and a canal. Once done, the patient can hear out of that ear! Keeping in mind that it is not even close to 100% hearing, recognizing sound coming from a certain direction helps safety and classroom performance. These two doctors work together and they are the best in the USA. There are 3 ways of creating an ear; Medpor, prosthetics, and rib graft. With the Medpor, they take a plastic mold and graft the child’s skin overtop of it. We have seen some patients with Medpor and talked to many parents and found that there is a higher percentage of rejection from the body. This means the skin does not adhere to the plastic creating sores and holes. The prosthetic is a snap on, snap off ear. This does not only, look the worst of the three but can be more expensive as each ear costs a lot to replace. The rib graft, which we chose for Amisha, is harvesting cartilage from a rib to create the structure of the ear and the body does not reject it as it is from itself. This looks the most realistic looking and has been the most trusted method of reconstruction. We will adding picture of before and after throughout the stages so you can follow Amisha's progress. It took us 6 years to find the right surgeon for our daughter.
She will need jaw distraction in her very near future as her right side of her jaw is not aligned due to the Microtia. We have talked to numerous doctors in Canada and the doctor we have already seen in California was actually named as one of the few doctors that will perform the procedure on Microtia patients. While on these trips we are both missing work, often without pay. So while we are trying to get Amisha what she needs done now, we made this website in hope to get help to raise the money for her Ear surgeries and her future surgeries in the USA to follow from now till she is 16.
Amisha turned 6 in December of 2009. Amisha needed to be 6 before the surgeon could harvest her rib to make her ear as your ear at that age is close to the same size as it will be during adulthood. In January of 2010 we travelled to California to have Stage 1 of the reconstruction done. The surgeries have to be 3 months apart as that is the time needed to heal between them. Amisha had stage 1 on January 21, 2010. The incision on her chest was a bit bigger than we thought it would be but she healed very well. The first Stage cost us quite a bit for the surgery, travel, meals and accommodation. Fortunately we had a friend who lent us her vehicle, so we saved the cost of that the first trip. This was our first taste as to how much Amisha's surgeries will cost us, which is all out of our pocket. It is a huge struggle trying to come up with the finances for it, but it will be SOOOoo well worth it. We are just two parents trying to give her the best we can, as any parent would. That does not include the cost of the Atresia repair to give her the hearing she does not have. That starts at an additional $20,000. In total, the four stages of surgery cost us over $65,000.
Amisha had Stage 2 done in April 2010. This was to create an earlobe and attach it to the rib graft that was placed under the skin. Amisha did well with this surgery and we have to say it was the easiest of the four surgeries she had done. Our stay was ten days there.
Stage 3 was done in July 2010 and was a bit tougher. I would have to say the toughest. At this stage they were taking a skin graft from Amisha's groin area which was to be expected painful but not what we experienced which was much more. The surgery itself was about 6 hours. They took about a 6 inch skin graft from her groin and pulled the rib graft away from her head. Amisha was all wrapped up so we couldn't see anything for about two weeks. We had to stay 4 weeks in California for that stage. The first week Amisha started to experience a lot of pain in her groin and head area. We ended up having to take her to the ER and get some Vicodin. That hardly touched her pain. It made for a very stressful first week for mommy and Amisha. I don't think I have seen her cry as much throughout the other surgeries. She was in so much pain. She finally got some other strong meds with it and was able to get some sleep.
On our way back home in August, Amisha fell off the bed and hit her head on a glass table at a hotel we were staying at. Of course, falling on her new ear. It just wasn't healing right to begin with and we were very worried. It was very raw and honestly we were very worried. She had an allergic reaction to the antibiotic cream Bacitracin and that made it so it did not heal well at all. After falling, there were very bloody areas and very raw skin showing, so I took her to our pediatrician. He is amazing!! He swabbed it and send them away. A week later we got a call saying that she needed to come to the clinic immediately. We were told that there were 7 types of different bacteria growing on her ear. Of course the first thought, were all these surgeries going to lead to her not having a new ear. I have never been so scared in my life. But with our amazing pediatrician, coinciding with Dr Brent, they did an amazing effort and after 2 weeks of Amisha being in the hospital on four different antibiotics....the ear started to heal. I can't tell you how thankful we were and still are. God was really watching out for Amisha.
Amisha had just finished healing and we were wondering if Stage 4 would go off in October 2010 as planned. The last and final stage. We didn't know she needed that stage until we got into Stage 3 as stage 4 can be done the same as stage 3 in a smaller number of cases. We were a little bit worried as that meant more money that we didn’t have. Anyways, it had to be done. So off we went back to California for Stage 4....the final reconstruction stage!! We decided to drive to give the kids a bit of an adventure to see things that were out there that we normally wouldn't be able to see flying, as well as flights were very expensive at the time due to thanksgiving and end of season for more inexpensive flight options. Well, not even 20 mins out of Swift Current, we had a blowout. Being it was Thanksgiving weekend, we had very little time to decide what to do. We drove up the road, purchased the one tire we needed to replace our donut for $170.00. I mentioned to Mike, well maybe we should get the others checked just in case. I called ahead to Medicine Hat and they got us in. Guess what, they had a sale, buy 3 tires get the fourth for free...ugh! They put our van on a hoist and found out that the other 3 had cracks. After discussing it, Mike and I decided we better be safe for the rest of the journey to California!
We missed our border but we drove late into the night to get to another one. It was the start to a bad trip. We got into California and our ABS light was staying on. We took it to a dealership there and found out that our two front hubs were shot along with the ABS! So much for saving money by driving. More stress added to our lives. In all we had to spend around $7000 on our van with repairs and tires. Well the one good thing that was coming out of this stage 4 is Amisha would have her ears (notice ears)! Yes... she would have two now, and they would be pierced. She was SOOO excited!!!
The last surgery was about 4 hours. As always watching the door to see if she’s out yet. Well she came out and the first thing she asked .... did he pierce my ears? .... I said yes honey!!!! Dr. Brent made sure we reminded him when she went in. As with the rib graft you have to be very careful of infection. In this stage he took a skin graft from behind her good ear to finish off the inside of the new ear. So again her head was shaved but this time both sides. And stitches on both ears. Her whole head was wrapped this time. We were very anxious to see everything but had to be patient! A week later we got to see it! WOW!! Seeing my baby girl with two ears was so amazing and Amisha was SO thrilled. I have never seen her look in the mirror so much! After her head dressing came out we saw the sutures that Dr. Brent put in. He said that we had to turn them and put ointment on them. Well the week we were ready to go home, Amisha started having an allergic reaction to the suture in her new ear. Of course, this was a very big worry as Amisha really wanted earrings. So we called Dr Brent and he said to see how it did. In the meantime I ran out and got some gold hoops as my ears are very sensitive and I have to wear gold only, so I thought maybe that’s why hers was doing that. Sure enough, we put them in and they were fine! We were there for four weeks again and headed to drive home! When we arrived home, we had a HUGE banner on our window that said Congrats on your new ear Amisha and her whole class, our friends, family and so many people who love her signed it! What an amazing thing to come to home too! A very special thank you to our great friends for putting everything together! After we had been home for a few weeks, Amisha was very excited to show all her friends. She had missed so much school and activities that she wanted to do something special. An earring party! We had an amazing time! We had a tea party and all her friends, teachers and all the people who helped with fundraisers in the past and more came to celebrate with her. Amisha thanked everyone and her brother! Throughout this adventure we had the most amazing friends and people who love us in our lives! We met so many new ones and families that were there with us and we will always treasure that. Amisha has a long road ahead of her but this chapter is behind her. Time for us to focus on paying back for the $65,000 of expenses we incurred.
Right now we are waiting for a jaw distraction to be done. There are many reasons that a person would need a jaw distraction. She needs it so her teeth align so she can chew properly, the obvious cosmetic reason that ALL distractions would fix, and also to help with her restricted airway issue. Whenever she has surgery it is harder to intubate as they have to come in at an angle and her jaw does not physically allow them to perform their job properly. Initially we were told it will need to be done twice, the second being when she is 16. Of course that is not covered once again for us by the government and we are in need to raise funds. With some hard work and collaboration between our local Orthodontist and the oral surgeon that will perform Amisha’s distraction they were able to hold off the initial distraction and Amisha will only have to endure one! Amisha had two pallet expanders and constant tinkering with braces but it was all well worth it in the end if she only needs one distraction. Thank you to the very professional and skilled doctors!
One of the issues that Amisha has had for years has to do with her bowels. The short story is that it seems that she does not get the sense that she needs to go to the bathroom when the bowels fill so there starts a backlog. When the backlog gets severe she gets admitted to the hospital and is flushed with PEG, enemas, etc. Amisha takes a daily dose of PEG that is 2-3 times the recommended daily adult dose just to keep her regular. For those not familiar with different types of laxatives there are basically two types. There are active ones like Exlax or Dulcolax that cause muscle craps forcing the gut to move. This is painful and not meant for long term use. Then there are passive ones like Lax-a-day or RestoraLax that are PEGs for home. They act like a moisturizer for the contents of the gut so things do not dry up and cause blockages. At the moment there is no end in sight for her taking a PEG every day.
Amisha has seen her share of medical issues in her life. One thing we want to get her to improve her quality of life is a hearing aid for the side she is missing her ear on. The surgical portion will be covered by the government, but the hearing aid will not be. The cost is between $3500 and $5000 or more. Because of that, we have to wait until we are finished the surgeries she needs and pay down what we had and will have to borrow for the surgeries, procedures and travel. When we first started looking at the types of hearing aids she would need the best solution was a Bone Anchor Hearing Aid (BAHA). This involved implanting a titanium post in her skull behind her newly created ear for the hearing aid to clip to. This would then process the sound and convert it to physical vibrations that her inner ear would pick up. At this point Amisha already had a CAT scan done to find different options she had to give her hearing on her right side. Her skull is completely formed over and although her 3 bones are formed, it looks like 2 of them are fused together. Her cochlea was properly formed therefor transmitting vibrations should work perfectly.
While doing more research on different options we found that there were a couple more different hearing solutions coming that we liked way better. By this time we have seen different scenarios where the skin recedes from the titanium post, various types of infections, etc. One of the new solutions that were coming involved using a magnetic plate implanted under the skin instead of a titanium post. This eliminates the risk of infection and skin receding as there is no portion of the solution that goes through the skin. The special hearing aid attaches to the plate magnetically.
Eventually the magnetic option came to Canada but with very limited specialists trained and experienced with it. We were lucky enough to have probably the best specialist for this option practicing in our province. We met with him, talked about options, ran tests to verify then were put on the list for the surgery. There was a lengthy wait as he had patients all over western Canada for various reasons. At that point we were given the devastating news that he was moving out east and it looked like he would run out of time before doing Amisha’s implant. Through hard work, dedication and some preferential treatment by the province to the doctor before he left we were lucky enough to get Amisha on the list of patients to get the surgery before he left. It took a couple visits to the audiologist to get the hearing aid adjusted properly in terms of magnetic strength and other options but she now has a properly working magnetically attached hearing aid. Yeah!
Amisha has also developed Scoliosis. If you are unfamiliar with scoliosis, it is a sideways curve of your spine. It starts around puberty and can worsen until she is done growing. To determine that she has an x-ray done and there are grown plates that form during puberty. Once the plates are fully formed you are basically fully grown. At that point the doctor can determine if the curvature of her spine is bad enough to warrent a surgical fix for the scoliosis. We are trying as hard as we can to stay away from that option as it involves getting rods down her spint from her neck down to her waist. As she is progressing more towards the surgical option we are attempting to slow the worsening of her spine with a back brace. That is a brace that she is casted for and made to help put pressure on portions of her back to prevent the spine from worsening. She was fitted for one at diagnosis which cost $2500 but then Amisha decided she would have another growth spurt on us. That means she outgrew her first brace within months. She was then fitted for a second brace for another $2500. She is to wear the brace for approx 23 hours per day. Although she does not like it she does know that not wearing it can lead to a painful surgery that will affect how she can move for the rest of her life.
Another issue has also popped up again that we did not have to think about for years. During her regularly scheduled Neurosurgeon visit and xray of her spine they found that the mass may be growing again. It does not look like it is putting any pressure on the spinal nerve yet so we just have to closely monitor it and be aware of any changes Amisha may have from now on.